Sex without Love
By Raquel Baranow
Sex without love (or $$$) is a waste of time.

If sex without love was so great, prostitutes would be the happiest people. (The window girls in Amsterdam
seem happy making 1000 euros/day.) ***

Sex without Love is less complicated than sex with love, as long as you warn your partner to NOT fall into Love
with you.

Quality of Love versus quantity of lovers. (It's not possible for me to NOT love someone I'm having sex with.)

My advice is: if you're not a virgin, you have nothing to lose but your life and you may become a sex
addict/prostitute.

Semen is vital fluid, like blood, energy. Vampires drain it. Vampires suck semen. If a person accepts that
semen you either love, hate or fear that person forever-after.
Semen Vampires. (xxx-Rated, Must be 18+ to View.)

The Green River slayer killed prostitutes because he didn't like giving them money.

Sex for fun or pleasure, to fulfil a fantasy? Can a woman love more than one man at a time? (Yes.) Can she
turn on and off her love? (Yes.) Is the fantasy as good as the reality? (Yes.) Fantasy and dreams come true but
if it happened as planned, life would be boring. The hard part is deciding what to do with the semen. (Bukkake)
LOVE: Agape, Eros (Erotic) & Philia
By Martin Luther King
The meaning of love is not to be confused with some sentimental outpouring. Love is something much more
than emotional bosh.

Perhaps the Greek language can clear our confusion at this point. In the Greek New Testament there are three
words for love:

The word eros is a sort of aesthetic or romantic love [actually I consider it erotic, passionate love]. In the
Platonic dialogues eros is a yearning of the soul for the realm of the divine.

The second word is philia, a reciprocal love and the intimate affection and friendship between friends. We
love those whom we like, and we love because we are loved.

The third word is agape, understanding and creative, redemptive goodwill for all men. [I consider it long-term,
forgiving.] An overflowing love which seeks nothing in return, agape is the love of God operating in the human
heart. At this level, we love men not because we like them, nor because their ways appeal to us, nor even
because they possess some type of divine spark; we love every man because God loves him. At this level, we
love the person who does an evil deed, although we hate the deed that he does.

[I think romantic love is a combination of Eros, Philia & Agape.]

Now we can see what Jesus meant when he said, “Love your enemies.” We should be happy that he did not
say, “Like your enemies.” It is almost impossible to like some people. “Like” is a sentimental and affectionate
word. How can we be affectionate toward a person whose avowed aim is to crush our very being and place
innumerable stumbling blocks in our path? How can we like a person who is threatening our children and
bombing our homes? That is impossible. But Jesus recognized that love is greater than like. When Jesus bids
us to love our enemies, he is speaking neither of eros nor philia; he is speaking of agape, understanding and
creative, redemptive goodwill for all men. Only by following this way and responding with this type of love are
we able to be children of our Father who is in heaven.
                                           
                                           --
Martin Luther King, Jr. Strength to Love, Philadelphia: Fortress, 1981. p. 52.)
What others say about Sex without Love

The pleasure is for only a moment and it passes like a dream and at the end thereof you find death through
knowing it.
-- Egyptian Saying

Sex is like an addiction, the more you have, the more you want.

My girlfriend and I are studying Tantra and one tape we came across explains sex without a deep love as
being akin to being with a dead person. My girlfriend agrees, however, I don't. I've had sex with women I didn't
love that was magnificent.
-- Internet Chat

Sex without love is an empty experience but as empty experiences go, it's one of the best. -- Woody Allen

Sex without love is like taking a shit: it feels good while doing it but stinks after. -- Graffiti in public toilet.
[When I ate nothing but Corn & Soybeans for one year, my shit was golden and did not smell bad.]

Sex Without Love
By Sharon Olds

How do they do it, the ones who make love
without love? Beautiful as dancers,
Gliding over each other like ice-skaters
over the ice, fingers hooked
inside each other's bodies, faces
red as steak, wine, wet as the
children at birth, whose mothers are going to
give them away. How do they come to the
come to the come to the God come to the
still waters, and not love
the one who came there with them, light
rising slowly as steam off their joined
skin? These are the true religious,
the purists, the pros, the ones who will not
accept a false Messiah, love the
priest instead of the God. They do not
mistake the lover for their own pleasure,
they are like great runners: they know they are alone
with the road surface, the cold, the wind,
the fit of their shoes, their over-all cardio-
vascular health -- just factors, like the partner
in the bed, and not the truth, which is the
single body alone in the universe
against its own best time.
[How do they do it? They do it for Money and have an understanding of what it is, illusions, fantasy, action.]

Sex without love is merely healthy exercise.
-- Robert A. Heinlein

Sex is like washing your face -- just something you do because you have to. Sex without love is absolutely
ridiculous. Sex follows love, it never precedes it.
-- Sophia Loren  (Italian film actress, b.1934)

Romantic Love
By Edgar Winter [Edited by Sexxxy Raquel666]

Free love also tends to equate love with sex; so sex becomes a more casual act, like shaking hands. You can
have sex without love, and you can have love without sex but when you have them both together, that’s a third
thing entirely different from the other two. That’s what I call “Romantic Love”!  

Most people talk about love as though it happens every day. Most of them would have a hard time accepting
the idea that romantic love exists. They would call it a naive, childlike, fairy tale, a story-book fantasy that you’
re just not likely to see in the real world.

Sadly enough, for the most part, they’re right -- not about the nature of love but about the fact that we see so
little of it!  They would say that anyone with such an unrealistic dream would surely face a life of hopeless
disillusion and despair. I say just the opposite: It is the person who is so logical, so reasonable, and therefore
to rigid and unwilling to open his heart enough to admit even the possibility of love, who is destined to live the
life of unhappiness and quiet desperation; too afraid to hope, to afraid to dream, too afraid to believe.  

Love is like God: it’s existence can not be proved, it must be accepted on faith [or experience]. If we see too
little love in the world, the sadness is that there are too few people who have the innocence and simplicity of
spirit to believe.  

Whoever said, “love is blind” didn’t quite get it right. I believe love sees all, reveals all, and understands all.
True love is when a person holds up a mirror that allows you to see yourself as you truly are.
*** "Happy Hookers" in Amsterdam (Sent to me from a forum on prostitution)

Hi,
This is ten years that i am practicing the amsterdam RLD and i can tell you that none of the women enjoy the
sex they have with customer. I discussed a lot with many even outside windows. It does not mean some do not
enjoy their job. I would classify as follow :

  1. The rip-off artist. They enjoy to rip you off.
  2. The drugged and pimped girls. they are not able to enjoy anything
  3. The pimped girls. For instance a lot of African girls in the oudekerk area. they do it because they have to
    pay back a lot of money. Some are really nice but they are forced to do it.
  4. The bored girls, they do it because they are pretty and find it the easiest way to earn quite a lot of
    money. they do not enjoy it, they just want your money and to kick you out as soon as possible. It does
    not mean they are rip off.
  5. The professional. They do their job as i do mine. Good provider. For instance Stella, i remember she
    told me "i enjoy my job not because of sex but because i meet a lot of people". Also Annie, F. from
    Surinam in the covered area and many other regular workers. I have one (damned) great exception.
  6. The occasional girls. My best time (except the exception) was with them. I will not affirm they enjoyed the
    sex but they provide GFE and were really happy to be with you and proved it.
  7. The ones who like sex with customers and have orgasm. Never met one but i am sure some punters
    know many. He he.
  8. Most pre-op TS. i can not fit them in any other categories.

I consider myself an "occasional girl" and GFE is okay if I'm being paid, in fact, guys that like GFE are
usually the best.