Sex without Love
Raquel Baranow
Sex without love (or $$$) is a waste of time.

If sex without love was so great, prostitutes would be the happiest people. (The window girls in
Amsterdam seem happy making 1000 euros/day.) ***

Sex without Love is less complicated than sex with love, as long as you warn your partner to
NOT fall into Love with you.

Quality of Love versus quantity of lovers. (It's not possible for me to NOT love someone I'm
having sex with.)

My advice is: if you're not a virgin, you have nothing to lose but your life and you may become
a sex addict/prostitute.

Semen is vital fluid, like blood, energy. Vampires drain it. Vampires suck semen. If a person
accepts that semen you either love, hate or fear that person forever-after.
Semen Vampires. (xxx-Rated, Must be 18+ to View.)

The Green River slayer killed prostitutes because he didn't like giving them money.

Sex for fun or pleasure, to fulfil a fantasy? Can a woman love more than one man at a time?
(Yes.) Can she turn on and off her love? (Yes.) Is the fantasy as good as the reality? (Yes.)
Fantasy and dreams come true but if it happened as planned, life would be boring. The hard
part is deciding what to do with the semen. (Bukkake)
LOVE: Agape, Eros (Erotic) & Philia
By Martin Luther King
The meaning of love is not to be confused with some sentimental outpouring. Love is
something much more than emotional bosh.

Perhaps the Greek language can clear our confusion at this point. In the Greek New
Testament there are three words for love:

The word eros is a sort of aesthetic or romantic love [actually I consider it erotic, passionate
love]. In the Platonic dialogues eros is a yearning of the soul for the realm of the divine.

The second word is philia, a reciprocal love and the intimate affection and friendship between
friends. We love those whom we like, and we love because we are loved.

The third word is agape, understanding and creative, redemptive goodwill for all men. [I
consider it long-term, forgiving.] An overflowing love which seeks nothing in return, agape is
the love of God operating in the human heart. At this level, we love men not because we like
them, nor because their ways appeal to us, nor even because they possess some type of
divine spark; we love every man because God loves him. At this level, we love the person who
does an evil deed, although we hate the deed that he does.

[I think romantic love is a combination of Eros, Philia & Agape.]

Now we can see what Jesus meant when he said, “Love your enemies.” We should be happy
that he did not say, “Like your enemies.” It is almost impossible to like some people. “Like” is a
sentimental and affectionate word. How can we be affectionate toward a person whose
avowed aim is to crush our very being and place innumerable stumbling blocks in our path?
How can we like a person who is threatening our children and bombing our homes? That is
impossible. But Jesus recognized that love is greater than like. When Jesus bids us to love our
enemies, he is speaking neither of eros nor philia; he is speaking of agape, understanding and
creative, redemptive goodwill for all men. Only by following this way and responding with this
type of love are we able to be children of our Father who is in heaven.
Martin Luther King, Jr. Strength to Love, Philadelphia: Fortress, 1981. p. 52.)
What others say about Sex without Love

The pleasure is for only a moment and it passes like a dream and at the end thereof you find
death through knowing it.
-- Egyptian Saying

Sex is like an addiction, the more you have, the more you want.

My girlfriend and I are studying Tantra and one tape we came across explains sex without a
deep love as being akin to being with a dead person. My girlfriend agrees, however, I don't.
I've had sex with women I didn't love that was magnificent.
-- Internet Chat

Sex without love is an empty experience but as empty experiences go, it's one of the best. --
Woody Allen

Sex without love is like taking a shit: it feels good while doing it but stinks after. -- Graffiti in
public toilet.
[When I ate nothing but Corn & Soybeans for one year, my shit was golden and
did not smell bad.]

Sex Without Love
Sharon Olds

How do they do it, the ones who make love
without love? Beautiful as dancers,
Gliding over each other like ice-skaters
over the ice, fingers hooked
inside each other's bodies, faces
red as steak, wine, wet as the
children at birth, whose mothers are going to
give them away. How do they come to the
come to the come to the God come to the
still waters, and not love
the one who came there with them, light
rising slowly as steam off their joined
skin? These are the true religious,
the purists, the pros, the ones who will not
accept a false Messiah, love the
priest instead of the God. They do not
mistake the lover for their own pleasure,
they are like great runners: they know they are alone
with the road surface, the cold, the wind,
the fit of their shoes, their over-all cardio-
vascular health -- just factors, like the partner
in the bed, and not the truth, which is the
single body alone in the universe
against its own best time.
[How do they do it? They do it for Money and have an understanding of what it is, illusions,
fantasy, action.]

Sex without love is merely healthy exercise.
-- Robert A. Heinlein

Sex is like washing your face -- just something you do because you have to. Sex without love
is absolutely ridiculous. Sex follows love, it never precedes it.
-- Sophia Loren  (Italian film
actress, b.1934)

Romantic Love
Edgar Winter [Edited by Sexxxy Raquel666]

Free love also tends to equate love with sex; so sex becomes a more casual act, like shaking
hands. You can have sex without love, and you can have love without sex but when you have
them both together, that’s a third thing entirely different from the other two. That’s what I call
“Romantic Love”!  

Most people talk about love as though it happens every day. Most of them would have a hard
time accepting the idea that romantic love exists. They would call it a naive, childlike, fairy tale,
a story-book fantasy that you’re just not likely to see in the real world.

Sadly enough, for the most part, they’re right -- not about the nature of love but about the fact
that we see so little of it!  They would say that anyone with such an unrealistic dream would
surely face a life of hopeless disillusion and despair. I say just the opposite: It is the person
who is so logical, so reasonable, and therefore to rigid and unwilling to open his heart enough
to admit even the possibility of love, who is destined to live the life of unhappiness and quiet
desperation; too afraid to hope, to afraid to dream, too afraid to believe.  

Love is like God: it’s existence can not be proved, it must be accepted on faith [or experience].
If we see too little love in the world, the sadness is that there are too few people who have the
innocence and simplicity of spirit to believe.  

Whoever said, “love is blind” didn’t quite get it right. I believe love sees all, reveals all, and
understands all. True love is when a person holds up a mirror that allows you to see yourself
as you truly are.
*** "Happy Hookers" in Amsterdam (Sent to me from a forum on prostitution)


This is ten years that i am practicing the amsterdam RLD and i can tell you that none of the
women enjoy the sex they have with customer. I discussed a lot with many even outside
windows. It does not mean some do not enjoy their job. I would classify as follow :

  1. The rip-off artist. They enjoy to rip you off.
  2. The drugged and pimped girls. they are not able to enjoy anything
  3. The pimped girls. For instance a lot of African girls in the oudekerk area. they do it
    because they have to pay back a lot of money. Some are really nice but they are forced to
    do it.
  4. The bored girls, they do it because they are pretty and find it the easiest way to earn
    quite a lot of money. they do not enjoy it, they just want your money and to kick you out
    as soon as possible. It does not mean they are rip off.
  5. The professional. They do their job as i do mine. Good provider. For instance Stella, i
    remember she told me "i enjoy my job not because of sex but because i meet a lot of
    people". Also Annie, F. from Surinam in the covered area and many other regular workers.
    I have one (damned) great exception.
  6. The occasional girls. My best time (except the exception) was with them. I will not affirm
    they enjoyed the sex but they provide GFE and were really happy to be with you and
    proved it.
  7. The ones who like sex with customers and have orgasm. Never met one but i am sure
    some punters know many. He he.